

Confession Box: What was your biggest moment of football treachery?
By: Rob | January 15th, 2009
I was going through my meagre living space earlier on, and I found a T-Shirt – wouldn’t have meant much to most people on first glance, but it was a Portugal Shirt. In fact it was a Portugal shirt from Euro 2004.
Euro 2004, of course provided one of the best games of football you are ever likely to see – between Portugal and England. I can still pretty much tell you every detail of what happened as I sat draped in a St. Georges Cross that day, and indeed how and why I own a shirt of the side that knocked us out.
Basically, I watched the game with my friends. We had high hopes. If England could get Rooney and Owen firing, we could beat an aging Portugal side, still, despite the additions of Simao and Ronaldo, mostly clinging to their Golden Generation. England went ahead thank to Michael Owen, and despite Rooney limping off, England looked good valule. Untill…
In a moment of madness I still haven’t been forgiven for, in the build up to a Portugal attack, I yelled “Give it To Postiga!” less than a minute laster, the Spurs striker had put it in the net.
If you watch the highlights of the game here, at 3:21, thats when i shouted my instructions to the Portugese. At 3.31, thats the very same Helder Postiga heading the ball in. The room, as you can imagine, when silent and turned to me. I have never known any atmosphere to change quite that quickly.
In my defence, Postiga was rubbish. He was playing at Spurs then, and had had a dreadful season. I just looked up how dreadful, and it turns out, worse than I thought. 1 goal in 19 appearances. What was he even doing in the squad on those stats? When I yelled to pass to Postiga, it was jeering, because I couldn’t concieve a situation where he could score. Nuno Gomes? Yeah. Postiga? Hell no.
England conceeded again in that game, and despite Frank Lamaprd’s effort in bailing us out (back when he was widely thought of as the best midfielder in the world), And Rui Costa trying to bail me out by missing his penalty, England were sent home, and it was all my fault.
At least that’s how my friends saw it. So the following day, I was forced to go and buy a Portugal shirt (thankfully, the shop was out of Postiga marked ones) and wear it for the remainder of the tournament. I guess it was how they delt with the grief, blaming me for England not having the luck of the day.
So I thought I’d pass on this story, (in the hope the Postiga nightmares will stop) and ask for more: Offsiders, when did you let your country, or your club down the most? Did you cheer for a rival side once? Have a similar experience to me? Go to Wembley to watch your rivals, just so you could go see Wembley? Not go to a game even though you could?
Let us know in the comments.
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“Not go to a game even though you could?”
Last winter, me and my brother were in London for vacation for a week, right after Christmas, and we made it a priority to go see a match, and I, being a huge Tottenham supporter, thought it would be great to see Tottenham v. Reading at White Hart Lane, and I wanted to purchase tickets ahead of time, but I never contacted the ticket office while they were open, so I was never able to buy them, so the day of the game came, and we decided to go to the stadium and hopefully purchase them, and just when we got there, they had JUST sold out, so I was dejected, and we decided to just walk around North London (loved it, by the way), and a couple of hours later, I got a phone call from my little brother, who was going crazy, and i asked him why… and then he said “I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU GOT TO GO TO THAT GAME!! IT WAS AMAZING!!” so i said “what are you talking about?” and he said “the tottenham/reading game!”, so i told him we never got in, and then he was like “you missed the best game ever!!”, so i told him not to tell me what happened, and then I had to go to an internet cafe, and see what happened, and thats when i saw this
http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport2/hi/football/eng_prem/7157425.stm
i still can’t believe i missed that… ugh
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I wanted Italy to dump out of Euro 2008 early so they would fire Donadoni. My prayers were answered
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I’ve never betrayed Ireland. But I have betrayed Man United, once! I’ve been a United fan forever, never even considered supporting anyone else. But then I got an inter shirt for Christmas ‘98. I had no affection towards Inter, but I liked the jersey. Then, lo and behold Man U faced Inter in the 98/99 CL QF. I always thought I’d support United for the match, but meant my best mate decided to wear opposing jerseys. It just so happened I didn’t have United’s current jersey at the time and my mate did. So he wore the Utd jersey while I wore Inter’s.
That alone, wouldn’t be enough for team treason. But soon after, 90 minutes to be precise I found myself crying because Inter had lost. Looking back, it was just like a childhood crush, seeing a doughy young lass and falling head over heels with her. Inter, for that day alone, was that doughy young lass, although much more olive skinned.
At the time I wasn’t guilty. The next match, without thought I supported United and have continued to do so since.
So even though I support United, through thick and thin, and have never harboured any other fleeting thoughts for another club I feel like Benedict Arnold when I look back at that disgusting day. Even though I was literally a one-off, it makes me upset thinking about it now.
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I think we all did, Tommy. Sleep soundly tonight, my son.
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Sadly, a lot of France fans had similar hopes. We got the worst of all worlds: dumped in the group stage, and we STILL have the manager.
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I guess I’m always betraying the United States by supporting the Mexico NT. I absolutely loathe the USMNT but sometimes I feel wrong for it, but it’s not so wrong since I’m Mexican by origin.
The worst actual act of betrayal to both the US and Mexico was when I wore a Brazil jersey to a US vs. Brazil friendly. I could’ve gone as a neutral but no, I wore the jersey (that I happened to own) and I was even pushed into one of those samba parades outside the stadium and played a drum alongside the crazy samba people. This dude with a green afro told me something like “tocao bem o tambor” and my confused self just said “si, si” as if I were speaking Spanish. I felt like a tool.
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I always betray Barcelona in video games and I go with Atletico Madrid. The gameplay in video games always pisses me off and it would piss me off even more if I was playing with Barca. I still break things and toss the controller around but it could be worse!
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I was really excited about the Argentina V USA game at Giants stadium (them having just one the super bowl, Argie on the road to the Olympics) but got lazy and never went online for tickets, then blew the gas money on beer and chinese.. it was pretty much a futbol disaster… thankfully didn’t miss a helluva game, and the chinese was fantastic. also, I always feels off playing against Argentina in FIFA
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wearing a Chelsea shirt and actively cheering on the blues durring the final of the Champion’s League last season. i’m a liverpool fan through and through and saw them as the lesser of two evils.
sadly even my betrayal couldn’t help john freaking terry stay on his feet
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Wayne, as a fellow Man United fan, I sympathise with you.
I am not sure if it is a form of treachery, given this has to do with the final day of the 2006/07 EPL season. West Ham coming to Old Trafford, with anything but a win will see them getting relegated (this was when Carlos Tevez was still with West Ham). United were already crowned EPL champions before that match and so I watched the match as someone who does not wish to see the Hammers going down. I remembered back then on the pay-TV (coming from Singapore myself, you get the EPL matches on the pay-TV here) they also showed flashes of other matches (I remembered they occasionally showed what happened at Sheffield United, another club being a relegation candidate) as well. Anyhow, when the match at Old Trafford ended…I think it has not ended at Sheffield United yet. When it was confirmed that Sheffield United would be going down, I almost wanted to jump and down in front of the TV set that West Ham survived. In front of my father, a fellow Man United fan!
I don’t know what make me to root for the Hammers during that final matchday of the season (Tevez scoring against Man United then) but whenever I think back and the consequences that followed (Sheffield United seeking compensation because they felt that Tevez caused them to get relegated), I felt kind of guilty. Irony of ironies, Tevez came to Man United.
But the mother of all football treachery…as an England supporter myself, I actually also support our arch-rival in international football – Germany. Yes. This came during the 2006 World Cup. After England got knocked out by Portugal in the quarter-finals on penalties, I found myself rooting for the host nation. Already before England’s exit, I already found myself amazed at how the Germans play (when Juergen Klinsmann was the coach of the German national team). I was actually on the verge of tears when Germany got knocked out by Italy in the semi-final! People saying that was the best match of the tournament, but I beg to differ at that time. That was when it really hit me how much I like the German national team. From Sven-Goran Eriksson to Steve McClaren, I was suffering as an England supporter. I needed to find a national team to support where I need not suffer all the time.
But lo and behold, I became torn all the more when I read in detail of the football rivalry between England and Germany. When the famous 5-1 scoreline happened in Munich, I have not become an England supporter yet (I only became one during the 2002 World Cup, don’t ask why). In the end, I found myself got stuck supporting the two national teams after that World Cup. It got worse when both national teams played each other in a friendly on August 2006 at the Wembley. At first I thought ‘Great, both the national teams I support playing against each other.’. Given the match actually came a week after my birthday (it was played on 22 August) and I treated it like a belated birthday ‘present’. But soon after, I don’t know who to root for back then, when England first took the lead, I was jumping out of the sofa but when Germany equalised and won the match eventually…I felt nothing. But it was only days and weeks later, I realised I was bitter England lost. Weird.
Fabio Capello had already being appointed as the England manager even way before Euro 2008 and back then when he arrived in England (we all know how England went under Steve McClaren), I was starting to be hopeful with his past achievements and all at the clubs he once coached. Euro 2008 came and went and like many, I agreed the right team (Spain) won the tournament.
Then came the 2010 World Cup qualifiers. On the same night when England beat Croatia 4-1 away, Germany got away with a 3-3 draw away at Finland (they almost lost actually, given Finland took the lead – thrice). That eventually became the turning point in me starting to swing my loyalties more to England. Even all the more leading up to the friendly match between Germany and England in Berlin two months ago, there was some sort of power struggle within the German national team (it began with Michael Ballack apparently criticising his national team coach in an interview, though they had since buried the hatchet). I was actually almost on the verge of giving up supporting the German national team and walking out of football altogether…until the 4-4 scoreline between Arsenal and Tottenham Hotspur came about. With my faith in football being restored after that dramatic match, I was starting to look forward to the friendly match in Berlin.
Then, the injuries coming in for Capello. I was starting to get anxious and worried will England managed to pull it off in Berlin against a German side with almost no injury news to report. But remembering it was Germany beating England 2-1 at the Wembley the last time they met and it is Fabio Capello being the England manager, I still watched the match. At that time when Germany equalised, I slumped on the sofa. Then came John Terry and the eventual winner. When the final whistle blew, I was doing my own jig in front of the TV that England has won. As someone who support both national teams! But even before the match, I was already rooting for England to beat Germany.
Well oh well. If that is not the mother of football treachery for me, I don’t know what it is. Because I am still stuck with supporting both national teams. But remembering I support England first before Germany came into the picture, I was actually secretly thankful with myself that I never ‘abandoned’ the England squad when Steve McClaren was still the manager. For a while now, I reminded myself that England is my ‘first love’ when it comes to international football.
Rob, so actually I am more worse off than you.
It was the ’summer fairytale’ of the 2006 World Cup surrounding the German national team that made me played the Devil’s Advocate, come to think of it. I got caught up with it, I confess. I am not sure how will I ever get out of this ‘mess’ I had created for myself. Sigh!
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Aww Diana, the important thing is that you came around to supporting the right team in the end!
I’ve always found in any game where I might have mixed loyalties that I find out during the 90 minutes who I’m for. Some things are deeper than thinking.
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Thank you, Rob.
I thought I will be hated after I confessed this. All the more, England and Germany…the two sides sharing a famous footballing rivalry. When I realised what I had gotten myself into, I cannot get out. Me committing what I called the biggest crime of being an England supporter. I made a pact with the devil. Having Germany as the other team (and still is).If the two teams ever meet again, my loyalties will be split again. Back then in November when Patrick Helmes equalised for Germany back, I was not surprised he was the goalscorer given he has been good for his club (Bayer Leverkusen). There is the Bundesliga on the pay-TV here apart from the EPL and so I am aware of that. But to think Helmes’s equaliser happened because of a defence mix-up between Scott Carson and John Terry (even if Terry said that it was all his fault)…
Just last week over the weekend, the Germany-England match was actually being shown on the pay-TV here again. And I watched it from start to finish. I still ‘celebrated’ after the final whistle.
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“In Ronaldo we trust” was very much the feeling for last year’s Premiership and Champions League campaigns.
So against Chelsea in Moscow the shoot out was nerve racking but going well. Up steps Ronaldo, our hero. For reasons beyond my comprehension I turned to my fellow United loving friend and said, “He’s gonna miss. He’s not gonna score.” Sure enough…
I was later told that my friend, an honest an true friend, had thought about laying me out on the dirty pub floor then and there but thankfully he restrained himself and Giggs prevented me from any future acts of retribution.
So in case anyone was still wondering how Ronaldo could manage to miss such a vital spot kick look no further than yours truly. I now keep my fears and negative feelings to myself.
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Since I was little Real Madrid has a place in my heart, so does Liverpool. I’d never admit it but Barcelona is my guilty pleasure and I have a soft spot for Arsenal.
Though I’ll always support Real I find myself switching to Barca games quite often this season. I was actually sad when they were saying that Arsenal’s season was over.
And that’s not all…
I’m half Spanish, half German and I live in Holland. You know where I’m going right…
I don’t feel particularly “Dutch” but I can’t do anything but love Oranje football. I’m not quite sure why I sometimes still root for Germany since my overall opinion of Germany is that of the average drunk, cockney speaking Londoner in the nearby pub.(make of that what you will)
Spain is the NT I love the most, always have. I shed a few tears when we won the Euro ‘08, because Germany lost but foremost because Spain won. The exit of the Oranje is something for the black books of Dutch football history, but they can be proud of beating Italy and France in such a spectacular fashion.
Now I must proceed mentally preparing myself for the CL encounter between RM and Liverpool.Posted from
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